Adolph was one of 3 Meinert brothers who came over from Germany (I am descended from his brother Herman).

The headstone spells his name Adauf. The Mary Brobst on the list is his daughter.

I have her name as Wilhemina Henrietta Charlotta - and that she was called Mary -

I have her birthdate as 11 Jun 1849, and Martin Brobst's as 11 Nov 1838.