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MORGAN COUNTY,
INDIANA
PIONEER
FAMILIES
It was no uncommon thing to find a large family of children among the
first settlers. If the husband and wife were of fairly robust health
and lived past middle life, from six to ten children usually encircled
the hearthstone, and it was no uncommon thing to find families
numbering as high as fifteen. If there was anything more than another
that the pioneers rejoiced in it was a family of good, strong boys and
girls, good boys and girls, mind
you; for parents then were as sensitive about flat failures as they are
to-day. They knew as well as we do that much more depends on the
quality than the quantity of the increase of population. The present
generation has learned very much that was unknown to the pioneer; some
of which is well worth knowing as it relates to hygiene and
reproduction. "Other some" would better be unlearned, but there are few
people who can learn to unlearn. And so it is, habits, desires, and
society "fads" are stronger than the strong minded. To-day, among those
who make any pretensions to paternity, the average number of children
to the family may run from two to four; others there are, endeavoring
to cheat nature out of the whole crop.
Whatever other faults and failures the pioneers had (and doubtless they
had many), failure to be fruitful and multiply could not be reckoned
among them. At the present rate of diminution, we shall soon be on a
level with France, with her two children to the married pair among the
ban tons, leaving the sustaining of the population to the poorer and
less prepared classes, who have always borne more than their share of
this natural burden. There is no good reason why a husband and wife
should bring into existence more children than they can reasonably hope
to care for; and, if we are to have the survival of the fittest, there
is still less reason why strong and healthful husbands and wives should
bring in none at all. It will be good for the world when the time
comes, if ever it does, that none but the true and brave, the honest
and good, will be engaged in this cooperative industry; and, when
public opinion will be so formed and ripened as to reduce the
procreation of paupers, criminals, and imbeciles to the minimum number.
Among those in our county who have stood pre-eminently at the head of
large families, was William Gregory, a remarkably vigorous and
energetic pioneer, who was born in Pittsylvania county, Virginia,
February 8, 1776. His father's name was also William, and his mother's
maiden name, Sally Graves, both natives of Virginia. When but a boy,
young William's parents moved to Washington county, Tennessee. Soon
after their arrival his
mother died. About two years after this sad event, his father married
again, and soon after moved to North Carolina where he passed the
remainder of his days as a local Methodist preacher. He died at the age
of seventy years.
The subject of our sketch was first married in North Carolina, March
25, 1795, to Miss Nancy Laws. In 1806 he moved to Kentucky where he
remained until February, 1811, when he came to Harrison county, this
State (then a Territory), and settled near Corydon. Here his wife died,
May 15, 1814. To them had been born eleven children between July 19,
1786, and May 16, 1814, ten of whom were living at the time of the
mother's death, which
occurred within thirty minutes after the birth of the eleventh child.
Their names and dates of birth were as follows: James, February 9,
1796; John, July 1, 1798; Beverly, June 11, 1800; Katy, April 24, 1802;
Thomas, April 1, 1804; Daniel, May 5, 1806; Susan, March 29, 1808; the
eighth was stillborn; Nathan, March 22, 1810; Levi, January 22, 1812,
and Nancy, May 14, 1814. Shortly after the death of his first wife, Mr.
Gregory was married,
September 1, 1814, to Mrs. Lucy Moffet, a young widow with three small
children, and be it said to his credit that he cared for them as
tenderly as for his own. This second wife in due time added eleven more
children to this already large family, as follows: Wiley, October 9,
1815; Dennis and Robert, September 13, 1817; David, May 12, 1819;
Fanny, April 17, 1821; twins stillborn in 1823; Hiram, June 14, 1825;
Grant, February 1, 1827; Milton W., April 7, 1829; and Eliza D.,
December 15, 1831. Many old citizens will remember John Moffet, the
tanner, who for many years lived in and near Martinsville; also, Mrs.
Grant Stafford, his sister, Mr. Stafford's first wife. These were Mr.
Gregory's step-children. Grant Stafford's second wife was Miss Fanny
Gregory, half sister to his first wife. After Mr. Stafford's death, she
became the wife of the late John W. Ferguson. The exact date of Mr.
Gregory's coming to our county is not given, but it was early in the
twenties. They first settled on the east side of White Lick on the road
from Lyon's mills to Mooresville, where he engaged in milling and
farming until 1832, when he purchased a farm in the northwest corner of
Greene township
on the road leading from Martinsville to Indianapolis. This farm is now
owned by attorney C. G. Renner, of Martinsville. Here, for eight or ten
years, Mr. Gregory added merchandising to his farming.
On the 17th day of May, 1835, his second wife died. Eighteen of his
twenty two children were then living. In August of the same year he
made another
matrimonial venture. This was with Mrs. Polly Lang, widow
of James Lang, a very early settler. She had five daughters and three
sons living, all grown,
excepting the youngest son. This match proved
to be ill sorted and brought plenty of trouble, not only to the
principal parties, but to their children as well,
who all felt more or
less aggrieved at the unpleasantness. After much court maneuvering, a
divorce was obtained and peace was restored "all along
the line."
The
truth was, there was no congeniality between them. They were both stern
and unyielding. She was a thoroughbred Calvinist, and he an
"overflowing" Methodist. In those days soda and acid would not
effervesce much quicker than "free grace" and "unconditional election"
when thrown
together. But Mr. Gregory was "fore ordained" to be a
patriarch, as the sequel shows, for after his divorce from "Aunt
Polly," he married, September
28, 1840. Mrs. Naomi Scott, who had two
children. She was the daughter
of
John and Susan Jackson, and sister of James Jackson, elder of the
Christian church at Martinsville, and clerk of the Morgan Circuit Court
during the forties. With her he passed the remaining years of his life,
adding six
more children to his remarkably large family. William G. was
born July 11, 1841; Wallace, December 18, 1842; Marion, December 6,
1843; Scott,
September 20, 1847; Edgar, June 22, 1849; and Mary, March
19, 1851.
The panic of 1840 dealt Mr. Gregory a hard blow. He was then in his
sixty sixth year, a time in life when most men are ready to "throw up
the sponge." But he was not a man to "sulk in his tent," or "strike his
colors" as long as there was a foot of tenable ground on the
battlefield.
He gathered up the fragments of his estate in 1843 and moved to Iowa,
then a Territory, and settled about twenty- two miles northwest of
Burlington. Having served in General Harrison's army in the War of
1812, he received a land warrant, which he laid on eighty acres of
prairie land adjoining his homestead. He held an enormous sod- plow,
dragged by five yoke of oxen, until the last foot of sod was turned up
to the sun for the first time. Here Mr. Gregory found more "snakes in
the grass" than he had encountered hitherto in all the ups and downs of
his eventful life. His son Milton, at that time a lad of fifteen, and
principal driver, says, "When a rattlesnake got tangled in the grass
about the cutter, the plow was allowed to hold itself until a quietus
was put upon the rattler." When finishing a land, as the grassy strip
grew narrower with each furrow, the snakes would crawl out of the grass
and over the plowed land trying to escape; but he became so expert with
his ox-whip that he could clip the head off one nearly every snap of
the lash. One day he "lynched" seventeen of "the little prairie devils"
without judge or jury, and it was no great day for snakes either.
Here upon the broad prairie of the West he made his last home. Far, far
away from where he gave the first infant wail; far from the scenes of
childhood and first love, with his children scattered far and wide,
some dead, some in childhood, some busy with the concerns of life;
himself well worn with the toils, cares, and sorrows of a mortal
existence. His journey from the cradle to the grave came to an end
September 25, 1858, in his eighty- third year.
Mr. Gregory had lived in six different States, had been four times
married, was the father of twenty nine children and step-father of
thirteen. His first child was born in 1798 and the last one in 1851.
Thus, for the time of fifty- three years, his ears had been accustomed
to the wails of babies and the racket of wide awake children. He was a
large, strong man, rather stern in manner and full of energy. A man of
good business tact, always providing
well for his family, large as it continued to be for more than forty
years. His posterity is scattered far and wide, a respectable and
respected people, many of whom have passed their lives in Morgan
county. Two of his children are well known residents of Martinsville,
Milton W. Gregory, to whom we are indebted for many of the items in
this sketch, and Mrs. William Edwards. At the time of Mr. Gregory's
first marriage, people had not been educated
to believe that "marriage is a failure." When the characteristics of
manly men and womanly women are so changed or obliterated through
luxury and false ideas of life, when home is the last place they wish
to be, and the least cared for, and when women would rather tend lap
dogs than lap babies, when both parents desire nothing higher than to
dress, flirt, and have a good time, then it must be conceded, marriage
is a failure, man a fraud, and
woman a cheat. Whether or not marriage is a success or failure, depends
upon who is married more than on any of the external circumstances of
life.
One of our near neighbors in 1832 was Solomon Collins. He was the head
of one of nine families of that name who came from Tennessee at the
earliest period of our settlement. Several of them lived near the
mouths of Sycamore and Highland creeks. "Old Sol," as he was called,
then lived in the river bottom, about three miles north of
Martinsville, and was a fair specimen of a backwoods Tennesseean. He
was no bookworm, knew not a letter or figure in the books, much less
was he a dude or a "gentleman of leisure." He was a good neighbor to
good neighbors, but woe to him who undertook to tread upon the toes of
"Old Sol." During the summer of 1832, he, with the help of his daughter
"Jinse," the best farm hand in the household, cultivated a field of
corn
on the bottom lands. They had worked hard, that is, Jinse had, and a
fine crop was the result.
Down on the bottom ground near Cox's (High Rock) mills, lived old Tommy
Clark and his son Jim. They were full of "crookedness." Among other
annoying things, they kept breachy horses and cattle that, like an
invading army, were always foraging in every direction. As one settler
said, "It took a fence horse high, bull strong, and pig tight to beat
Old Tom." In the fall, Clark's horses and cows held daily picnics in
"Old Sol's" corn field. When this came to his ears, and a personal
investigation proved the report true, the air nearby seemed to turn
blue, for Mr. Collins was not a regular church attendant, neither had
he learned to curb his temper or bridle his tongue; but he could keep
his own counsel.
He was at that time the owner of seven dogs. Now, one or two dogs can
live on the crumbs that fall from the rich man's table, but seven dogs
are too many boarders under the table of a poor man; so the dogs were
in poor condition, and very much lacking in snap and vim. Collins
killed a beef and began putting his dogs in training for the fray. He
said "nine days was all he wanted to put 'Bull' and 'Caesar' in good
workin" order." He told one of the
neighbors that "if them cows git into my corn ag'in, old Tom Clark
won't hev head nor tail on 'em." A peace- loving neighbor informed
Clark of what was coming, and averted a calamity to the cows, as well
as a lawsuit; for Clark took in the situation and kept his trespassing
animals at home.
It is a true saying that "bad fences make breachy animals and bad
neighbors." A good farmer does not like to see his own animals in his
wheat or corn, much less to see other people's stock trespassing on his
lands. The best farmers among the early settlers made and kept up good
fences, and consequently, had but little breachy stock. But many
communities had those among them who were careless as to where their
domestic animals roamed, knowing full well that they would breach any
common fence. Nay more, they were known to pass by, seeing their horses
in a neighbor's field and never offering to remove them, and if
remonstrated with, would reply, tantalizingly, by saying, "Build up
your fences." It took Indiana fifty years to learn that it is the duty
of every man to fence against his own stock. There are those who yet
think that they ought to be permitted by law to forage the unfenced
lands and public highways. The Legislature wrestled many sessions with
the fence question, all to no purpose; for many members who wished to
be returned were afraid of those voters who wanted to keep the State as
a sort of a big ranch. They finally passed an act defining a "lawful
fence," over, or through which, if an animal went, the owner was liable
for damages. Two fence viewers were to be elected for each township.
Nobody wanted this thankless office, and the people ridiculed it by
electing the longest and shortest men in the township, the one to view
the height, and the other the cracks of the fence.
Miss Jinsey Collins was the strongest woman in the county. She was
about medium height, weighing 130 pounds. It was said that she could
shoulder three bushels of wheat, standing in a half bushel. She could
swing an ax like a logger, and was a good hand in a clearing. She could
ride as wild a horse as the average man. In winter time she was usually
attired in linsey-woolsey, with a red bandana tied about her head. She
had dark brown eyes and hair, with complexion to match, and was more
useful than showy. She moved away with her father's family, and we lost
all trace of her.
One Christmas Sol brought home two jugs of whisky, one of which he
suspended with a rope from the joist to a height to meet the mouths of
the smaller children; the other jug was set on a shelf for his private
use, and for visiting neighbors. Many kinsfolk and friends dropped in
to see Sol on that day and were feasted on pork, venison, and wild
turkey, together with corn bread, hominy, and dried pumpkin, all
plentifully interspersed and leveled off with stew, sling, and eggnog.
It was a merry Christmas at Old Sol's house, long to be remembered by
the participants. Even the "seven sons of thunder," as he called his
dogs, were not forgotten, but had an additional allowance, besides the
ordinary share of crumbs; for next to his family, Sol's affections went
out to his dogs and gun, and if you wished to carry a broken nose, you
only had to kick one of his "seven thunders" unlawfully.
People of to-day can have but a faint idea of the tie that bound men
and dogs in the days of howling wolves, snuffing bears, and purring
panthers. Sol's dogs were his bodyguard by day and his sentinels by
night. Daniel in the lion's den was safer than a stranger would have
been prowling around Mr. Collins's domicile after nightfall.
Back among the Collins ancestors there must have been some one who
greatly admired Hebrew names, for of the nine heads of families, eight
of their baptismal names were strictly Hebrew, David coming in for four
of them, to-wit: "Cracker-Neck" Dave, "Ticky" Dave, "Cackling" Dave,
and "Bucket" Dave. Next came "Old Sol," of whom we have already made
mention; "Punkin" Sol, perhaps so named because of his partiality for
pumpkin pies and all
other forms of this unclassified edible. Then Hiram and Isaiah, dubbed
"Old Hi" and "Old Zair." Even Pompey's name may have been Jeremiah or
Ezekiel, but we always heard him called Pompey. Only two of the nine
pairs of old folks stayed to have their bones buried on the old camping
ground. They were Hiram and David L. ("Cracker-Neck"). Hiram owned a
small farm near the mouth of Highland creek, where he and his wife
lived to old age, having brought up five sons and five daughters to
full age. Their last days were embittered by neighborhood broils. Wyatt
Carpenter and family frequently came in collision with Collins and
family. But the greatest battle of the neighborhood was between the
Collins and Overton families, near relatives. The war spirit had been
hovering over them for some time. Their farms joined, and one day
something about a partition fence or a water gap brought them face to
face. The skirmishing began by firing red-hot words into the ears of
each other. There was no one to pour oil on the troubled waters, or the
water- gap. Both parties were ready for the encounter, and from words
it came to blows. Fists, clubs, teeth, and claws went into action on
the double quick, and for a few minutes it seemed that there would be
business for the doctors and coffins to be sent for. Fortunately no one
was killed; but, when the smoke of battle lifted, it was found that
Anderson Collins had been severely punished and his father cut in the
thigh with a knife.
From the battlefield this feud was transferred to the courthouse, where
the cross firing from the witness stand was equal to that on the
skirmish line. Time alone, which blots out everything, could quell this
neighborhood quarrel. Some died, some moved away, and others forgave,
but it was years before peace was fully restored. The other family to
remain was "Cracker-Neck" Dave's. He purchased a little farm on
Sycamore creek, where he continued to reside until the end of life. He
and his family were quiet, good citizens, and well respected by their
neighbors. Several of his descendants are still living in Clay
township.
When the bear tracks were fading away, the herds of deer scattered, and
the flocks of wild turkeys growing wilder and scarcer; when churches
and schoolhouses began to spring up in the woods, and the little copper
stills to die out, then "Old Sol" turned wistful eyes westward, as to
the "land of promise." About the year 1836 he gathered up his goods and
started for a new country, a country not yet unduly civilized, a
country where he could chase bruin with his "seven thunders" every day
in the week, Sunday not excepted. The last we heard of this backwoods
child of the chase, he was in his ninetieth year, hale and strong for
his age. He could no longer join in the hunt for bear or deer, but had
to content himself with a seat in the chimney corner and while away the
time with pipe and tobacco. My informant said his chances were good for
rounding out one hundred years. His wife and most of his children had
"shuffled off this mortal coil," and the old hunter seemed to be sad
and lonely. Like Othello, his "occupation was gone."
Pompey was a nondescript. You might travel to and fro for half an age
and never find his match. He was not an "all round crook" but,
physically considered, an "all round tough." As Fowler once said of
Henry Ward Beecher, he was "a splendid animal." He walked to
Martinsville one Christmas day when the snow was falling on warmly
dressed people, clad in nothing but a coonskin cap, and tow linen shirt
and breeches, while his feet were as bare as at birth. He could snap
his finger at Jack Frost in midwinter, and walk about, seemingly as
comfortable as the average man in boots. His diet was corn bread and
wild hog, and his drink, whisky. The truth is he was somewhat careless
about his menu and personal appearance. But he was the "very soul of
honor," as he understood the term; for when Bill Jones at a shooting
match said something about a hog thief, which Pompey thought was a
reflection on himself, he proposed to vindicate his honor by pounding
Jones into sausage meat. But Jones headed him off by landing his rifle
on Pompey's head. The gun- barrel left the stock in Jones's hands, and
together with Pompey fell to the ground. The blood was spinning out of
his left ear in a fearful stream, and he was supposed to be killed.
However, he was only "dummed"; for in a short time he was on his feet,
and wanted to go gunning after Jones, but the peacemakers interposed
their goodly offices and prevented further bloodshed.
Pompey had a "hog ranch" somewhere between Cox's mills and Lamb's
creek. He did not exactly own, but exercised a sort of supervision over
it, looking after his neighbors' as well as his own swine herd. In
those days people had ear marks for their hogs; slits, swallow forks,
under bits and upper bits, slopes, holes, smooth crops and half crops.
Pompey's brand was a smooth crop of both ears. He was greatly annoyed
by some neighbors who were always trying to pry into his business. He
usually marketed his hogs at the Martinsville pork house; and sometimes
the hair was scalded, and again it would be singed off. The ears had
been frozen off. He once built a corn crib; but like Ward McAllister's
head, never had anything in it.
Had Pompey lived at the present time and been so disposed, he could
have been a noted prize fighter or football player. He had the one
great qualification a thick skull. "Here I close my narrative,
tremble as I show it, Lest perchance that 'all round tough' Should ever
catch the poet."
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